Someday a family. Someday a yard littered with toys. Someday the sweet pure love of a child. Someday the loving embrace of my husband with a little one tucked inside. Someday a Christmas Card with our family picture. Someday.
My Someday is now.
Oh,foxy, I'm so, so sorry. I have been there. Nothing can prepare you for what it feels like. Please know that even though it won't be the way you always imagined, you will have the family you've always dreamed about, some way, some how. And it will be incredible. Many, many hugs. Please email if there's anything I can do. ultimatejourney @ gmail dot com.
I'm just catching up on my blogs and I'm so sorry to hear this news.
Allow yourself time to grieve - however long that takes and in whatever way you need.
Know that while this dream, this way of creating a family is not to be, you are not out of options, you are not powerless and without choice.
Remember that children are a wonderful blessing and that there are stills paths to parenthood available to you, should you choose to continue toward that goal...but children do not define a life nor provide its meaning.
Thanks for visiting! Feel free to let me know that you stopped by by leaving a comment here or emailing me at foxypopcorn at gmail. I will be sure to stop by and visit you soon too!
all my love, foxy. i'm so, so sorry.
ReplyDeleteI'm so very sorry. Sending you aeroplanes full of love & squishy hugs.
ReplyDeletexxxxxx
My heart breaks for you.
ReplyDeleteOh,foxy, I'm so, so sorry. I have been there. Nothing can prepare you for what it feels like. Please know that even though it won't be the way you always imagined, you will have the family you've always dreamed about, some way, some how. And it will be incredible. Many, many hugs. Please email if there's anything I can do. ultimatejourney @ gmail dot com.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry. My heart is breaking for you both.
ReplyDeleteI have no words, just big (((hugs))).
ReplyDeleteI'm so so sorry Foxy (((HUG)))
ReplyDeleteNo words..just know I'm thinking of you guys.
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry foxy. big big ((HUGS)) You'll be in my prayers
ReplyDeleteI am very sorry Foxy. Hugs to you.
ReplyDeleteOh no! I'm so sorry to hear that. (((())))
ReplyDeleteI am so, so sorry, sweetie. HUGS.
ReplyDeleteThere are no words that can take away your pain right now. All I can say is that I am truly sorry.
ReplyDelete*hugs*
I'm just catching up on my blogs and I'm so sorry to hear this news.
ReplyDeleteAllow yourself time to grieve - however long that takes and in whatever way you need.
Know that while this dream, this way of creating a family is not to be, you are not out of options, you are not powerless and without choice.
Remember that children are a wonderful blessing and that there are stills paths to parenthood available to you, should you choose to continue toward that goal...but children do not define a life nor provide its meaning.
HUGS.
Oh no, Foxy. I'm so very, very sorry.
ReplyDeleteThinking of you both.